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Virginia Child Custody and Visitation Lawyers

If you are facing a divorce, child custody and visitation are likely among the most important matters you must address. Because your parental rights and children’s best interests are paramount, you are well-advised to work closely with an experienced Virginia child custody attorney.

Legal Custody

In Virginia, custody breaks down into both legal and physical custody, which incorporates visitation. Legal custody relates to who will be making important life decisions for your children moving forward, and it can be either sole (one parent takes on the responsibility) or joint (both of you share the responsibility). The kinds of questions involved include those related to:

  • Your children’s ongoing education
  • Your children’s medical needs and healthcare
  • Your children’s extracurricular activities
  • Your children’s religious instruction

Conversely, those decisions that relate to the mechanics of daily living are left to the parent who is with the children at the time.

Physical Custody and Visitation

Physical custody relates to the visitation schedule by which your children split their time between the two of you. Physical custody can also be either sole or joint, but the court needs a very compelling reason for shutting down a parent’s right to at least some form of visitation with his or her children.

Sometimes, one parent becomes the primary custodial parent with whom the children spend most of their time, and the other has a visitation schedule. When it comes to physical custody, however, you can also split your time equally (or nearly equally) according to whatever schedule you and the other parent are willing to accept.

Negotiations

The most straightforward path forward involves you and your divorcing spouse negotiating your child custody terms between yourselves and avoiding the court’s intervention in the matter. Your seasoned child custody attorney will help you explore your options.

Factors Considered by the Court

In your case, the judge must consider your children’s best interests. In the process of making final decisions on the matter, however, the court will consider wide-ranging factors, including:

  • Each of your children’s ages and the physical and mental health status of each of them
  • You and your spouse’s ages and the physical and mental health status of each of you
  • The role that each parent plays in each child’s upbringing
  • The unique relationship between each child and each parent; the degree to which each parent is positively involved in each child’s life; and each parent’s ability to accurately assess and meet the emotional, physical, and intellectual needs of each child
  • Each child’s unique needs in relation to maintaining relationships with their siblings, peers, and members of their extended family
  • Each parent’s propensity to support each child’s ongoing relationship with the other parent

FAQs About Child Custody in Virginia

What are some tips to create a good custody agreement without court intervention?

The key to creating a custody agreement outside of court is cooperation and clear communication. Keep the focus on your child, rather than personal disagreements, and be thorough in creating a parenting plan that covers schedules, holidays, and decision-making for important matters. Consider working with a mediator to help you and your ex-partner find common ground.

What should I do if my ex is alienating my child from me?

Parental alienation is serious. If you believe this is happening, you need to act thoughtfully. Document every instance of alienating behavior with specific dates, times, and descriptions. Maintain a calm and consistent presence in your child’s life, and avoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of them. This is a complex situation that may require legal guidance.

How can I protect my child's mental health during a custody dispute?

Custody disputes can be stressful for children. Shield them from conflict by avoiding arguments in front of them and refraining from discussing case details. Reassure them that both parents love them and that the situation is not their fault. Maintain routines as much as possible to provide a sense of stability.

Can a parent regain custody after losing it?

Yes, a parent can regain custody. To do so, you must demonstrate to the court that there has been a significant and positive change in your situation since the original order was made. This could involve completing court-ordered programs, showing stable housing and employment, or resolving issues that led to the loss of custody. The court’s primary consideration will always be the child’s best interest.

What should I do if my ex is violating the custody agreement?

If your ex-partner is not following the custody agreement, the first step is to carefully document each violation. Keep a record of dates, times, and specific details of what happened. You can try to bring the issue up directly and calmly with your ex, but if the violations continue, you may need to seek legal assistance.

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